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May 27


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Rant: Friendzone? Who Gives a Shit!

Journal Entry: Tue May 27, 2014, 6:16 PM

Okay, so...heh, this is a rant I've been wanting to make since yesterday, and finally I've decided to do it. Sorry if anyone gets pissed off about this, but it's my opinion and you don't have to agree. If you do agree with me, thanks! If you don't, cool. I don't mind.

I am so sick of hearing about the 'friendzone'. Why? Because there isn't one. Why people can't understand that is something I'll never get. The only time 'friendzone' is used is when some douchebag is being friends with a girl (or guy, whatever) in order to get sex in return, and then they get all pissed off when they don't get it. Guess what fuckers, nobody's obligated to give their goodies out to anyone. A chick is not obligated to give you pussy just because you played a game of Mario Kart with her or patted her on the back when she was depressed.

Of course, that's how our world is. A girl gives someone sex all the time and she's a slut, or she refuses and she's trash and/or dead if you're Elliot Rodger.

Speaking of him and the people on youtube who were defending what he did to those people in Isla Vista... where are your heads, idiots? You don't get pussy so that means it's cool to go and kill innocent people? Nah, son... Who cares who's a virgin or not? I've never had sex and I'm perfectly fine with that. It doesn't make me any less of a person than the girl who's fucked 20 guys. Do you think I'm going to go kill people I don't even know because some hot girls or guys didn't give me sex? No way. Yeah, there are some people out there who can be justified for the crazy shit they do, yes, but this guy? Nope. Sorry. Some of you may justify that but I am never going to condone murder just because you were 'friendzoned'.

I just... maybe I'm wrong here. Maybe I missed the memo somewhere.

Stamp - Get Over Yourself by Kotego

  • Mood: Distressed
  • Listening to: Aozora (piano version)
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brittbritt-2000 Featured By Owner Jun 4, 2014  Student Digital Artist
AVA-1966 Featured By Owner Jun 4, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
;) Welcome
DarthScyther Featured By Owner May 30, 2014
a Friend I Had said that "I Will never Experience anything Worse than the Friendzone". Ugh. How Right! Because World Hunger and War is totally more Enjoyable than the Friendzone!
CharredAnarchie Featured By Owner May 29, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Like some other people have said, I think that the term 'friendzoned' can also be used to describe when you're in love with someone or have a crush on them and they reject you, saying that they just see you as a friend. It's not always about getting pussy and/or dick. Sometimes it just means that your affections were turned down by the person you like. And when it's being used like that, in an non-expectant and (reluctantly) accepting way, I don't see anything wrong with it.

On the other hand, if someone demands you to fuck them and when you don't, they call you a prude and say you 'friendzoned' them, they're an asshole and they were never your friend to begin with. 
AVA-1966 Featured By Owner May 29, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Well, I was talking about the percentage of people who are douchebags. Maybe I'm just sick of seeing terms like 'friendzone' being used all the damn time. To me, it's as annoying as 'yolo' and 'swag'. People come up with this shit when they could just say "I liked this girl, but she only sees me as a friend." :shrug:

Oh well. Doesn't really matter, I just figured I'd state my opinion on the subject. :)
CharredAnarchie Featured By Owner May 30, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Yeah, I can understand why it would be annoying. I personally don't use 'friendzone' because I find it to be a bit of a dumb term, but, I just figured I'd shed some light on the other side of the 'friendzone spectrum'. 
Gothicmewmew16 Featured By Owner May 28, 2014  Student Traditional Artist
Thank you for saying this . I totally agree with you.
AVA-1966 Featured By Owner May 29, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
You're welcome!
Gothicmewmew16 Featured By Owner Jun 11, 2014  Student Traditional Artist
GhostShow Featured By Owner May 28, 2014
Holy fuck. I have so much to say on this subject and I agree 10-fold. I recall my ex saying that -I- owed him my body because he did some nice things for me, and I flat out called him out on it... Tore him another one, and 'kindly' explained that I didn't owe him any sexual favors.  Even in the relationship I explained that it had always been my body, my mind, my choice... I even told him that from the start it he acted like it had always been about him, and his 'memememememememememeeeeee' mentality needed to go and FAST if he expected to be with anyone else...He needed to realize that it's not always about his dick or the friend zone.. He's a grown adult, and he needed to act like it and stop being so unthinking and selfish.

... he then proceeded to go off and get drunk like some angsty idiot. 
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