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Rant: Nobody Cares if You've 'Done It' or Not

Journal Entry: Wed Jul 23, 2014, 12:43 PM
The opinions in this rant are my own, and if you don't agree, that's fine. You're not obligated to. If you do agree with me, thank you!

You know what pisses me off? When people act like if you're a virgin, it's some kind of a sin and you need to have sex like RIGHT NAO or you're going to die alone and be miserable. Similarly, when some virgins act like being a virgin automatically makes them the most saintly thing in the world.

People always tell me "Kyra, you need to get laid! You need to do it with someone! Blah blah blah". Um, what if I'm perfectly happy in this life not screwing everything I set my sights on, huh? I'm happy the way I am and don't need someone telling me to go be a slut or else I'll be sad all the time. I don't have a desire to do that at this point in my life, and there's nothing wrong with that. I'm perfectly fine with my fantasies and interests, but I don't have a mighty need to go out in the world and make them a reality, you know?

And just because you may not be a virgin doesn't mean you're automatically some kind of a whore. There's a huge difference in being the town skank/manwhore and being an everyday person who's had sex. 

Oh well...this is a short rant, because this is not a topic I tend to talk about a lot. Conclusion? Virgin or not, you're no better than anyone else and it's not really that big of a deal... Also, if someone's secure and happy being whatever they happen to be, don't try to make them do something (or someone) they don't want to do. It's not that serious, bro.

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SundaeBlaze Featured By Owner Jul 30, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Ugh when I was in high school, there were people just saying how they "did it" the night before, where, when and how. It was nauseating not only to me (being a virgin and still happily am, thank you very much) but there were several people just pregnant... .__.

Junior year at my tech school, there was somebody with a baby. Another girl in the same class was pregnant. About a few days (maybe a little over a week?) before summer break she had her son. Didn't get to see the final days of school, write in yearbooks or anything. Just had a baby and didn't show up.

What's really annoying, to me, is people writing "SO-AND-SO IS MY BABY DADDY <3333" and I'm just sitting there like, "Oh honey if he's not a real man he'll leave you within a year. If he was a true man he'd stick with you. But in my books he's a BOY. <<"

"And it's you're not a "MILF" (Mother I'd Like to ****), sweetie. you're a B*tch With A Baby (BWAB)" is another saying I like for snotty 16-and-pregnant people.

But I'm getting off topic.

Long story short, I'm happy being a virgin. I'd love to be a virgin until I find the right man. MAN. Not a boy. Until then, I'll live out my fantasies in private and wait until I find the right guy.

But I do not agree with the stereotypes of women. There's a fine line between being a skan*/whore/slut/whatever when you've only slept with somebody... once. Against somebody who's slept with almost all the guys in the neighborhood.

It's like this: Woman dates/sleeps with multiple guys in different years respectfully, she's considered a "slut" and she's hated upon. Guy sleeps with several women within a few weeks and he gets a high five from his guy friends.

Yes, I was once (or twice) called a "whore" even though I am a virgin. I just laughed at them, because those people were talking mostly about themselves anyways.

I could go on forever with this c:
ExperimentaI Featured By Owner Edited Sep 2, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
....wait seriously
FaithInHumanity.exe has stopped working.
AVG has found a virus in this program and suggests you delete it.
SundaeBlaze Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
The world turned to sh*t in 2003. God help us all..
RaspberryTickle Featured By Owner Jul 29, 2014  Student General Artist
GAWD that's so annoying. Why should people care about another's sexual/personal life? My former coworkers at my old disgusting degrading job used to talk about their sex lives all the goddamn time....fad;gaj39ut4es geerrrr can't even finish my sentence.

Ozokami698 Featured By Owner Jul 24, 2014  Student Traditional Artist
Hmm, I agree, personally it annoys me when people say I need to get laid ASAP, and believe that if you haven't had sex by the time you're 16 it's a freakin' crime:/ It really annoys me since, I'd rather lose my virginity to someone that actually cares about me, and not some stupid one night stand....People piss me off at times, especially when they try to peer-pressure me into trying to get laid, when I'm content with not having sex yet.
Granted, I'm not a saint, not in the least. Just because I'm a virgin, doesn't make me a saint. I'm not a nice being in the least, even then I'm only nice to those who treat me nicely. If you are a royal ass, then I'm going to be a ass right back at ya. Once again, not a saint.

I actually find it funny....because the idiots that pressure me to have sex don't realize they can get in trouble. In the USA if you are not at the age of 18 and you have sex, you can be charged. (This rule varies sometimes, like you can have sex at the age of 17 in Texas, since Texas considers you as a adult) Regardless, most of these stupid teens having sex/getting pregnant at a really early age should look up the law:/ Plus, they have a giant portion of their life to have a baby and/or have sex....

Once again, it can wait. It's not going to be the end of the world if you wait.
AngelicRose1 Featured By Owner Jul 24, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Amen. I mean, have you even HEARD of that one 12-year old who got pregnant?! When I was 12, my parents told me to save myself until marriage otherwise I'd get a deadly disease and die...which is kinda true if you get AIDS, but I think they can treat that. Hmm...
unicornhearts0000 Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2014  Hobbyist Filmographer
There was a 9 year-old who got pregnant, too. And I'm pretty sure that AIDS is untreatable, but I could be wrong.
RaspberryTickle Featured By Owner Jul 29, 2014  Student General Artist
I didn't think it was possible for someone that young to get pregnant

unicornhearts0000 Featured By Owner Jul 29, 2014  Hobbyist Filmographer
Yeah she hit puberty extremely early on, so she could get pregnant
RaspberryTickle Featured By Owner Jul 29, 2014  Student General Artist
Agh, gross. 

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